Robert Oliver on Instagram: "There’s a model called the Five Stages of Relationship. Stage one is the honeymoon: chemistry high, red flags invisible. Stage two is the power struggle: differences surface, control battles start. Most quit here. Stage three is acceptance: this is who they are, can we build anyway? Stage four is commitment: not convenience, construction. Stage five is oneness: two people, one rhythm. Real love isn’t sparks. It’s choosing each other through the fire."