There’s always that moment when your officiant says, “Anything specific you want me to know?” And you blank. Let me be the one to say it: don’t wing it. Here are 5 things you absolutely need to tell your officiant before the ceremony: 1. Whether you want them to move out of the first kiss shot 📸 2. If you’re writing personal vows (and how long they are) 3. Whether you want a prayer, a reading, or to keep it short and sweet 4. What not to say — names, stories, or jokes that don’t sit right 5. Wh