The One Thing That Ends Relationships….. It’s not money. It’s not a lack of sex or intimacy. It’s not even different parenting styles. The one thing that quietly destroys relationships more than anything else? A lack of accountability. Why? Because most people are walking around with deeply internalized shame. And shame does two things in relationships: it either makes you fight… or it makes you hide. The Fearful Avoidant tends to fight. They react defensively when they feel they’ve hurt their p