"Lilies Not For Me" follows the story of a writer as he goes through an agonizing gay conversion program in the 1920s. NPR's Scott Simon speaks to writer and director Will Seefried about the film.

Being in a professional environment doesn't mean you have to over-give. Be direct, but tactful when saying no. In this era of hustle and grind, it's easy to do too much professionally to stand out ...