How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I am a 41-year-old straight cis woman, and my friend “Julia” (she/they) ...
You can spend hours in a car with someone, talk them through their worst moments, and genuinely care about what happens to them…and still somehow not make the cut for their wedding guest list. She was ...